Friday, October 11, 2013

The Wild, Wild, West.

"This (Quran) is a Message for mankind (and a clear proof against them), in order that they may be warned thereby, and that they may know that He is the only One Ilah (God - Allah) - (none has the right to be worshipped but Allah), and that men of understanding may take heed. " (Surah Ibrahim 52)

Many individuals have taken the role of being "the power-hungry feminist" , who will do just about ANYTHING just to TRY to climb their way up in the social corporate ladder. Their natural inclinations as a nurturing, nourishing, modest woman becomes distorted and deviated by the pressures of society. Brainwashing them into thinking that they are born to be the "breadwinner" and to abandon their duties as a housewife and a mother. All you see in today's society are daughters, mothers, sisters, aunt's who are selling their bodies in one way or another, just to earn status and honour. But what is honour to the Western woman? Honour, would be considered as; that degrading remark made by that strange man in his lime green Lamborghini at the stop light. Or her co-workers telling her how beautiful she looks in her pencil skirt and tight blouse. She feels empowered when she gets a dozen "likes" on Facebook because of her "outfit of the day", and how about that television producer asking her to remove her inner innocence and "let loose for the camera"? Or the photographer telling her to pose "sexy" for the camera? Is the liberation found in the drug addict who abandoned her children and ends up living on the side of THAT alley way? Or what about that stripper, the prostitute (who happens to be someone's DAUGHTER, MOTHER, SISTER)...what about them? Are they liberated? Are these women truly honoured ? Are they deserving their rights as a woman? The woman who works twice as hard as the man, but get paid equal or lower than that fair "justice"? Those feminists who protest with their top off like animals, are they really really liberated? Does exposing your private parts and dressing half naked REALLY mean that you are liberated?

IS this truly honour? Or is that TRUE degradation and oppression?
HMMM....I think even a grade 5 student would be able to tell you the answer. NO.

Surely, one could say "well not ALL Western women think this is honour!" and right, this is true. But how about then those women who give up their entire life to study years on end just to become a high paying professional? She sacrifices everything JUST to earn the big bucks and attempt to over take the role of men! She strives for a six figure salary when she won't even have time to enjoy the money she gets paid because she is too stressed worrying about her job. Majority of her hours are spent at work and if not at work she brings her work home and never spends time with her family. She eats, sleeps, breathes work resulting in her husband cheating on her, or her cheating on him, and their neglected children end up prowling around nightclubs and bars posting crude photo's of their lifestyle all online. Their children use their parent's money to waste on extravagant things and even go as low to become recreational drug users! What kind of lifestyle is this? The women are the foundation of a successful household. If she is corrupt, than the entire home falters. This is not an opinion, but merely a fact.

Think about this for one minute, even the worst of rulers and oppressors, had mothers. The best of men, the worst of men, all had mothers. How they raised their son's, only Allah, The Almighty, knows, but one thing is apparent, and that is, children need constant nurturing, care, and attention in order to become successful individuals with good values, moral uprightness and a sound mind. The mother and the father are the prime example of who their children look up to. They are supposed to be the leaders, setting examples that are supposed to be followed and then carried on to the next generation. Even animals, Subhana'Allah, have a natural responsibility to take care of their offspring at a young age teaching them how to hunt, feeding them, and providing for them. This is the fitrah of an animal who doesn't even have any kind of intellect compared to the human being. So what does that tell us? Obviously much is lacking in the households of today's society, and lack of morals are prevalent in many fathers and mothers. Many parents let the television raise their children and the sitcoms and music videos become the teachers of the future. Without a doubt, the Shaitan is hard at work and using every single tool he can to outsmart, outcast, and outwin the human race. He has started with one of the most sacred and innocent attribute of man, and that is, modesty. Modesty has been stripped from every man and woman in the Western world. 

Shaitan has used his tools to brainwash these women to thinking that they are only NOBLE and HONOURABLE if they show as MUCH SKIN as possible. The slimmer you are, the bigger your (fake) breasts are, and the more makeup you have on is the more successful you are- SUBHANA'ALLAH?!!!!!! What has happened to this society? It is not only in the West, but it is even sweeping the world as far as SAUDI?!!!!!!!!!!! ASTUGHFURALLAH 'ATHEEM. You see certain so-called "princesses" wearing tight fitting clothes that are classified as "classy and modest" yet look at their faces?!?!?!? All ADORNED with makeup and no hijab, following her master around like some puppet?! Advocating for women's rights and liberation in Saudi!?? What kind of rights are we looking at here? The same ones that all the kafir countries adopt? SUBHANA'ALLAH. Saudi is the only country that is somewhat being preserved for their Islam, and look at the substance that we have representing the women...representing ISLAM?!?!?!?!!!!!!!? I cry out in sadness and anger, this really breaks my heart. The dunya was all I EVER chased before I converted to Islam!!!!?? Why are these born Muslims trying to chase what their fitrah is AGAINST?!! I know many reverts feel my struggle and my pain because I know many of us have been there-done that, and we realised the beautiful guidance and true beauty of Islam...Sisters, I am with you!!

I really don't understand the obsession that all these Saudi or Middle Eastern women have with leaving off their hijab and adopting fashion of the Western culture?! They are so brainwashed with KAFIRS telling them that they are oppressed and Subhana'Allah they actually believe it? They forget about who Allah is and the word "modesty" and "hijab" have left their vocabulary. Their role as a mother, daughter, sister, Muslimah, have been neglected and abandoned. This is the sad truth of what society has become. The Muslimah who should be PROUD of her role as a mother, daughter, sister; the muslimah who should be proud of her MODESTY, her CHASTITY, HER PURITY is no longer proud of what Allah has blessed her with. She has left it all for the worldly life and has taken on the role of the true oppressed woman of the Wild, Wild, West.


Anas reports that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), said: 'The best women of mankind are four: Mariam daughter of 'Imran, Assiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadijah daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allah.' [Bukhari and Muslim]

How many princesses, mothers, daughters, sisters, and aunts are striving to be like these women? Instead they aim to be like the British royal family or the next selina gomez (is that how you spell her name? I really don't know lol) and miley cyrus (*gag* who are plagues to society!) ..what is the problem my dear sisters with trying to follow the footsteps of our beloved mother of believers? IS it really THAT difficult to maintain piety and truthfulness and honour ?? Is it really that embarrassing to adopt PROPER MODESTY and cover your beauty for your husband only? If your money is so "sacred" that you need to put it into a wallet or a purse than why would you even flail your beauty and private parts around the streets like you are some free bank offering your goods for a lowly cheap price? Please dear sisters, reflect upon the this for it is the truth and nobody will tell it to you like it is in this busy busy temporary materialistic world that we live in. Please take a moment and reflect, and repent and return to your Lord.

Let me remind you about what Islam says about the modest, pious woman who is granted Jannah; she is not the one who is beautifying herself all over the internet and in public for random strangers nor is she the one who curses and slanders with her dirty, rotten mouth, she definitely is not the one who puts beauty before her Lord, nor is she the one who advocates everything AGAINST the Sunnah of Muhammad (sallalahu aleyhi wasslem- check also my post on the 10 invalidators of Islam). The true woman of Jannah is the one who is the best of mothers, the most supportive of wives, and the most obedient of daughters. The woman of Jannah strives to please her Lord and knows that she was created differently from men and she knows that men and women have their own separate roles. She knows that Allah rewards the righteous slave EQUALLY with reward, and that He is Most Just. She does not go against her fitrah and corrupts her modesty and her role as a mother, wife, a Muslim woman. The woman of Jannah is pure, clean, with a heart and soul that is white and full of light and love for the Qur'an and for Her Lord! Remember sisters, if you follow the dunya and really believe that your beauty will bring you to Jannah, just remember, you are nowhere near the Hoor Al-Ein, so relax a little and loosen up your tight shirt and your tight hijab. The Angel will not care how you smell in your grave or what designer makeup brand or purse you wore while you were in this dunya, in fact, this will ALL BE HELD AGAINST YOU. So think twice before you exit your home. Allah IS ALL KNOWING, ALL SEEING, ALL HEARING !!!! FEAR ALLAH !!

You want to be a REAL WOMAN? You want to be the real true woman of Jannah? No feminist, power-hungry, oppressed woman could EVER compare to what I am about to share with you all, this is the TRUE woman of Jannah; this is what we should all be striving for:

And if you ask about their brides and wives, then they are young and full-breasted and have had the liquid of youth flow through their limbs; the Sun runs along the beauty of her face if she shows it, light shines from between her teeth if she smiles; if you meet her love, then say whatever you want regarding the joining of two lights; he sees his face in the roundness of her cheek as if he is looking into a polished mirror, and he sees the brightness from behind her muscles and bones; if she were to be unleashed upon the World, she would fill what is between the Heavens and the Earth with a beautiful wind, and the mouths of the creation would glorifiy, praise, and exclaim greatness, and everything between the East and the West would be adorned for her, and every eye would be shut from everthing but her, and the light of the Sun would be outshone just as the light of the Sun outshines the light of the stars, and everyone on the face of the Earth would believe in the Ever-Living,
the One who Sustains and Protects all the exists.And the covering on her head is better than the World and all that is in it, and she does not increase with age except in beauty; free from an umbilical cord, childbirth and menses, and pure of mucous, saliva, urine and other filthy things; her youth never fades, her clothing is never worn out, no garment can be created that matches her beauty, and no one who is with her can ever become bored;
her attention is restricted to her husband, so she desires none but him, just as his attention is restricted to her so she is the sole object of his desire,
and he is with her in utmost safety and security, as none has touched her before of either humans or Jinn.
([Source:- from the amazing and beautiful book Haadi al-Arwaah ilaa Bilaad il-Afraah by Ibn al-Qayyim, pg # 193]

So, in closing, I just wanted to share some extremely crucial reminders for us all from The  Noble Qur'an, after these verses, do you REALLY REALLY REALLY want to imitate the kafirs and take them as your idols and role models?

"Consider not that Allah is unaware of that which the Zalimun (polytheists, wrong-doers, etc.) do, but He gives them respite up to a Day when the eyes will stare in horror. (They will be) hastening forward with necks outstretched, their heads raised up (towards the sky), their gaze returning not towards them and their hearts empty (from thinking because of extreme fear). And warn (O Muhammad SAW) mankind of the Day when the torment will come unto them; then the wrong-doers will say: "Our Lord! Respite us for a little while, we will answer Your Call and follow the Messengers!" (It will be said): "Had you not sworn aforetime that you would not leave (the world for the Hereafter)." (Surah Ibrahim 42-44)

"And you will see the Mujrimun (criminals, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allah Islamic Monotheism, polytheists, disobedient to Allah, etc.) that Day bound together in fetters; [Muqarranun in fetters; mean:- with their hands and feet tied to their necks with chains.] Their garments will be of pitch, and fire will cover their faces. That Allah may requite each person according to what he has earned. Truly, Allah is Swift at reckoning. ( Surah Ibrahim 49-51)

See sisters, the EXTREME punishment that the kafirs, the wrongdoers, and the hypocrites will experience on THE Day???? Will you like to follow in these very same footsteps which you are trying to strive for in this dunya (naudhubillah) !!??? Please, let these verses stick in your mind and let them remind you if you truly want to follow the kafirs and their lifestyles...May Allah guide us all and keep us steadfast and upright with our beautiful deen al-Islam, may He give us tawfeeq to turn to Him in humility and shame and may He forgive us our sins . Ameen !!!!

Monday, October 7, 2013


Assalamualaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatu.....

As she sits on her MacBook in the University library, clicking and clacking away on the keyboard, she looks at her nail polish and realizes the chip and crack on her left pinky finger. She kisses her teeth and utters a word not suitable for her age. A few minutes later, she forgets and continues to type. The more clicking and clacking, the bigger the grin on her face grows. She checks her Facebook and notices a new notification, she thinks to herself "he finally accepted my friend request!" She changes the song she is listening to on her Ipod while she searches the web for fashion hijabi bloggers  to get some inspirations for her current look. She thinks about abandoning the hijab since her mother doesn't wear it anyway. Her brother picks her up with his girlfriend in the front seat and they go to the mall together.......

He comes from a rich family. He finishes talking to his family on Skype and lights a cigarette and calls his girlfriend. She lives in the same building as him on Campus. Before he hangs up with her, he tells her to come to his apartment and cook dinner for him and his friends. Him and his friends spark a joint and smoke some marijuana and get high. They sit and watch music videos while surfing on Facebook adding new random girls to their list. They plan their evening after dinner to go out to their Friday night hot spot at the hottest club in the city. Fast forward, the night ends and him and his friends drunk out of their minds end up in jail for a criminal offence that happened in the club. His family is contacted, he is stripped from his scholarship and deported back to his home, not to mention, he also had to leave his 6 month pregnant girlfriend......

. She is waiting for her father to pick her up from school, an all girls Catholic school in her uniform, white blouse, short skirt, no hijab. She was born and raised in North America. Her father calls her and tells her that he will host another holiday party in the evening. Their mansion is the social gathering of the neighbourhood. She wonders if her crush will be at the party and she asks her dad to take her to buy another Carolina Herrera dress. Her parents are both immigrants from a 'Muslim' country and have raised their children with no religion. The family has completely lost sense of all their religious values and their morals are lost as well. Her father finally picks her up and takes her to the most expensive department store in the city while her mother is with the chauffeur shopping for alcoholic beverages to serve at the evening party. Her father answers phone calls from his business partner and wishes him a Happy Hanukkah while she texts her friend to bring the drugs to the party....

So, what do these three scenarios have in common?

THESE ARE THE CURRENT SCENARIOS OF THE PRESENT UMMAH WE LIVE IN TODAY! Though maybe not so much to these extremes but pretty darn close !

Mixing and mingling with men and women like it's nobody's business.
Drinking wine with their meals like nobody is watching.
Laughing and idle talk with music and television like nobody can hear them.
Committing  zina like it is the only way to solve one's problems.

 Our children and youth are the future of tomorrow yet WHAT ARE WE DOING TO THEM? Neglecting them and abandoning our natural duties as nurturing parents to raise them up as RIGHTEOUS MUSLIMS!! Instead, parents are chasing the dunya , showing off their wealth, and demoralizing themselves to be JUST LIKE THE KAFIRS. Children are most vulnerable when they are young and absorb EVERYTHING like a sponge, so if they are conditioned to seeing you NOT PRAY, NOT DISPLAY GOOD MANNERS, LISTENING TO MUSIC AND WATCHING TELEVISION then they will mature thinking that this is OK.

What has the future of this Ummah become?
Nothing except carbon copies of Egyptian singers, Princess Amirahs of Saudi Arabia or BOLLYWOOD MANIACS who ALL have followed none other then all the Western slaves of Shaitan. THIS is our current UMMAH and THIS will become the FUTURE of our UMMAH if we do not TURN TO THE QUR'AN AND SUNNAH instead of the remote control !!! 

This world will never become a better place so long as we keep falling into the dunya until it eats us up and spits us out into the Hellfire. We wonder where all these immoral acts, immodesty, violence, and corruption ALL STEM FROM? Well, very simple. It starts with the foundation of the household, which would be, THE PARENTS. 

Parents have become so consumed by the mentality "make money, work, make money, work, make money" that once they come home from work, they abandon the family and immerse themselves right in front of the television or a fictional novel that takes them far away from reality. The WEST makes everything unnatural seem natural, hence mind controlling every single individual (Muslim or not) to think that this world is all about money, fun & games. Completely brainwashed.

It is all about "enjoy your life", "life is too short, live it to the fullest" , "sex, drugs, and rock & roll" !!!! They are then stripped of their moral values and desensitized of all sense of goodness. The only way to GOODNESS, GOOD MORALS, HARMONY AND PEACE is only through ISLAM.

Islam is the cure for all diseases. Islam is the cure for all hatred, disunity, and corruption. ISLAM IS FOLLOWING THE QUR'AN AND SUNNAH. NO INNOVATION, NO ASSOCIATING PARTNERS WITH THE ONE TRUE CREATOR, NO INVENTED SECTS. 

ISLAM IS THE ONLY WAY TO HELP US RAISE GOOD, CLEAN, PURE CHILDREN so that the future Ummah will not become oppressed dicators, HIV spreading prostitutes, uneducated, useless, power hungry Presidents and Kings (and I am not labelling anyone in particular otherwise I would be singling them out by name.) 

The Western society is going through a BIG BIG CRISIS. They have no more morals left in them and their perception of family & society has become EXTREMELY DISTORTED. They have all abandoned the thoughts and values of a FAMILY as ONE BASIC UNIT. A FOUNDATION. These children then become deprived of parental guidance from where children learn their first lesson of TRUE VALUES of a STRONG loving bond between family and society. The thing that has been raising children in today's society is the television, the maid, and the other children in school who's parents have also abandoned the importance of establishing a strong family bond. Many Muslim families have adopted exactly this. They have even sold their religion for a cheap price for the worldly life. DO YOU KNOW WHY? Because those with weak to NO imaan will go with the masses and the MASSES of today , the masses of 5 years ago, the masses of 10 years ago remains the same, that is, THE MASS OF THE MEDIA. 



Try unplugging your television for ONE WHOLE WEEK and you will finally be able to SEE for the first time in your life. YOU will be able to SEE just HOW deluded you truly were and how you lost sight of Allah and chose to submit to your desires instead of to the ONE TRUE CREATOR!!! You want a detox? You want a true body cleanse? Put down the 5 day liquid vegetable cleanses full of filler nonsense, pull the plug to your television, get rid of all the magazines and fiction novels AND learn about YOUR TRUE PURPOSE IN LIFE. LEARN HOW TO CLEAN YOUR HEART AND SOUL THE REAL WAY BY SUBMITTING TO THE ONLY PROVIDER, THE ONLY CREATOR, THE ONE TRUE GOD, ALLAH THE ALMIGHTY THE MOST HIGH! Cleanse yourself the Islamic way and learn how to condition your children with FEAR OF ALLAH in their hearts instead of conditioning them with Disney cartoons and cartoons that will only give your child ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER!

 Do yourselves a favour and immerse yourselves with these quotes from the Qur'an and learn just how temporary and deceiving this world really is !!! OPEN YOUR EYES AND TURN OFF THAT TELEVISION. TURN OFF THE NEWS (THAT FEEDS YOU NOTHING BUT HATE AND LIES AGAINST YOUR OWN RELIGION) & start reading the Qur'an and learn the seerah of the Prophet Sallalahu Aleyhi Wasselam.


“And Shaitan (Satan) will say when the matter has been decided: ‘Verily, Allah promised you a promise of truth. And I too promised you, but I betrayed you. I had no authority over you except that I called you, and you responded to me. So blame me not, but blame yourselves. I cannot help you, nor can you help me. I deny your former act in associating me (Satan) as a partner with Allah (by obeying me in the life of the world). Verily, there is a painful torment for the Zaalimoon (polytheists and wrongdoers)’” (Quran, Ibraaheem: 22)

“Those who has disbelieved – their wealth and their children will never benefit them anything with Allah. And those are the ones who are the fuel of Hellfire.”
[ali'-Imran, 3: 10]

"Then, as for him who transgresses all bounds, and prefers the life of this world, then surely the hell, that is the abode." ( 79:37-39)

Know that the life of this world (dunya) is only play and amusement, pomp and mutual boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children..the life of this world is only a deceiving enjoyment." (57:20)

“Rivalry in worldly increase distracts you (from the remembrance of Allah), till you come to the graves” (102: 1-2).

"By time,

Indeed, mankind is in loss,
Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience." (103:1-3)

"Verily, the Promise of Allah is true, let not then this (worldly) present life deceive you, nor let the chief deceiver (Satan) deceive you about Allah." (31:33)

"Fair in the eyes of men is the love of things they covet: Women and sons; Heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses branded (for blood and excellence); and (wealth of) cattle and well-tilled land. Such are the possessions of this world's life; but in nearness to God is the best of the goals (to return to). Say: Shall I give you glad tidings Far better than those? For the righteous are Gardens in nearness to their Lord, with rivers flowing beneath; therein is their eternal home; with companions pure (and holy); and the good pleasure of God. For in God's sight are (all) His servants." (3: 14-15)

"He will say: 'What number of years did you stay on earth?' They will reply: 'We stayed a day or part of a day: but ask those who keep account.' He will say: 'You stayed but a little - if you had only known! Did you think that We had created you in jest, and that you would never be brought back to Us?' " ( 23: 112-115)

“people who buy the life of this world at the price of the Hereafter”. For them Allah decrees: “Their penalty shall not be lightened, nor shall they be helped.” (Surat al-Baqara, 2:86)

“Those who rest not their hope on their meeting with Us, but are pleased and satisfied with the life of the present,, and those who  heed not Our Signs; their abode is the Fire, because of the evil they earned.” (Surah Yunus, 10:7-8)

May Allah open our hearts and minds to the Qur'an and Sunnah and close our hearts far away from this dunya and make the Akhirah the focus of our lives. May He guide the Muslim youth of today and forgive us all for our ignorance and arrogance and increase us in truthfulness and modesty AMEEN AMEEN AMEEN! 

May Allah forgive me for anything that I've said that has offended you, anything good I've said is from Allah and anything bad is from my own self and I seek refuge in Allah from Shaitan the accursed. Ameen! 

Thursday, October 3, 2013

The Sad Life of of one without Allah in their life.

Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatulahi wa Barakatu, 

Before Islam, it didn't matter to me whether I believed in a religion or not. It didn't phase me whether there was a Creator of the Universe or not. I could have cared less whether I knew who 'god' was. My perception of 'Heaven' and 'Hell' never became a reality except for an hour at a time when I watched a fantasy drama in the movie theater. I never even THOUGHT about death and the only thing I cared about was living for the moment. I was the "right-then-&-there" kinda girl and I had no direction in my life. Even my friends at the time would try to lecture me and try to give me advice about my "free-spirited" lifestyle and many of them always asked me, "so what do you plan on doing with your life?"

Ironically, it is I who now wants to ask them this very same question. It is I, who wants to advise them about their life plans and their purpose in this world. It is I, who now looks at them and I feel nothing but sympathy and sorrow for their blindness.Those who once felt sorry for me due to my lack and care of life, are now the ones who have taken on that role I once was in. Alhamdulilah, Allah took me out of my darkness and He showered me with His Mercy and guided me to the truth. Alhamdulilah for Him not leaving me in my saddened state of despair. Alhamdulilah for the light of Islam. 

I think about all the friends that I had before Islam, and I reflect upon their life. I reflect upon the life that I once shared with these individuals and I can't help but feel truly sad and sincere sorrow for them. The Guidance of Allah, is something so beautiful and sacred, only once you become a Muslim can you truly understand. This is why I truly feel the need to advise you all of the detrimental, deceptive, depressing life of a kafir. It wrecked me and it is only through Islam that I now find my way back to recovery, Alhamdulilah. 

My dear sisters in Islam, hold onto your gift of guidance. Hold on tightly to it no matter how hard it seems to be in such a society that we live in today. Hold on tightly to the rope of Allah and continue to pull yourself closer to Him and further away from this dunya. Follow the path of our beloved Rasulullah (sallalahu aleyhi wasselam) because following the path of Shaitan will only lead you to the sad life of a kafir. 

What is the sad life of a kafir? 

The sad life of a kafir has no personality, no identity, and no self-respect. They chase unrealistic dreams and have temporary goals. They think nothing more or less about this world and their lives revolve around worshipping idols (music, television, fashion clowns). They live for the worldly life and their outlook on life is nothing but what they see in the mirror. They deceive others but they are the ones who are truly being deceived. They betray, they backbite, they slander and they curse. They are selfish and liars. They do good deeds to show off, and they do good deeds for their own worldly benefit. Their kindness is never sincere (though it might seem like they are, there is always a hidden agenda- getting praised, trying to gain status in this worldly life, etc.). They think they are intellectual and knowledgeable because they read school textbooks and the local newspaper. They revolve their lives around the television and raise their children through tv shows and maids. They cheat on their husbands and they cheat on their wives. They dress to impress others and they strive to look like the next (drug addict) model, or the next (suicidal) actress. The sad life of a kafir knows no bounds to plastic surgery. They express themselves through fashion identities because this is the only way they can showcase their "personality." They cry for attention from strange men (who are no better than dogs chasing their own tails), and they live each day pleasing the creation and forgetting about The Creator. Their hearts are diseased and their souls are cursed. They disbelieve in Allah but believe in Shaitan. They follow their desires and they think that it is perfectly normal to do so. Their sense of freedom is expressing themselves through cheap love songs and $2.00 Tuesday movies. Committing adultery, and committing fornication is second nature to them because they think they originated from apes, so it's ok to act like animals (diseased and all). Subhana'Allah.

Dear sisters in Islam, this is indeed the sad life of a kafir and it is not something that we should be striving to follow. It is not something that we should be striving to live for. This sad life is filled with darkness, emptiness, sadness, depression, and confusion. This kind of life is filled with nothing. It is worth less than a dropping of an ant, and less than a weight of an atom! But you may say "well not ALL kafirs are like this.." but please, think about your statement! Do they have Allah in their lives? Do they know what the sweetness of emaan is? Do they know how to call upon Allah through sajood? Do they REALLY know who Rasulullah (sallalahu aleyhi wasselam) is? Do they know how it feels to be liberated under our modest garments? Do they know what it feels like to be looked at as an actual human being rather than a sex object? Do they know how it feels to be pure and chaste? Do they know what it means to lower their gazes? No. They don't. 

Why would we EVER want to give up our own identity for such a sad life? A life full of misery. A life without our Lord, Allah, The Almighty. Why would we want to follow the life of a bunch of girls who are friends only because they share the same favourite colour and fashion taste? Nobody will ever understand the true beauty of Islam until they see the unity of sisterhood. It is the sincere love for Allah that we have, that unites us all as one Ummah. Remember sisters, the sad life of a kafir will NEVER change, they may think they have their lives all figured out and they may even think that they are the happiest people in the world. But remember, anybody without Allah and whoever follows their own desires instead of His Obedience, is doomed in this world and the next. May Allah guide us all and turn our hearts to Him and Him alone and may He forgive us and bestow upon us His never-ending Mercy. Ameen.

I leave you with four simple words that may change your life (insha'Allah) :

Read, Reflect, Repent, Renew. 

and remember, 

"Whoever has self respect, does not give any value to the worldly life." 

(Ibn Al-Qayyim. Sifatu Al-Safwah 2.77)

May Allah forgive me if I have said anything to offend you all, all good is from Him and anything evil or with error is from my own self and I seek refuge in Him from Shaitan the accursed. Ameen.